In the fast-paced world we live in today, men face a unique set of challenges that can often be overlooked.  As a female life coach, when people hear that I provide life coaching, the assumption is often that my clients are all (or at least predominantly) women.  While I have worked with plenty of women, my life coaching practice has always been busier with men.  Men who are keen to improve their lives, both personally and professionally  and who wish to feel grounded and calm too.

 

My perspective as a woman brings a different angle to the coaching process, one that involves holding space, emphasising empathy, emotional intelligence, and holistic growth. Here’s how life coaching can make a profound difference in men’s lives.

 

Men often feel a sense of expectation that they ought to be strong, stoic, and self-reliant. These societal pressures can make it difficult for them to seek help, to express their vulnerability, or even to recognise that there are areas in their lives that need improvement. Life coaching invites self reflection and provides a safe, impartial space where men can openly discuss their challenges without fear of judgment.

 

 

Exploring Emotional Intelligence is such an important part of the work that I do with men.  In a world that invites them to be strong, having a space to explore and understand their varying emotions, and learning how to express them healthily, is a real benefit of life coaching.  Contrary to the notion that feeling emotions makes them weak, the men that I have worked with who learn to process their emotions, develop more resilience and improved mental health.  This leads to better relationships, family life and improved productivity.

 

 

Many men feel a sense of pressure to succeed professionally.  With “success” being such a vague and never ending goal, self-care and other commitments can get pushed to the bottom of the pile. Life coaching helps men create a balanced life where they can excel in their careers without neglecting their health, hobbies, or family time. We work together to set realistic goals, manage time effectively, and establish priorities that align with their values.  Learning to be “present” while in each separate area of life is a core skill we work on too!

 

 

Life coaching encourages self awareness, which naturally involves challenging and redefining people’s roles and how they show up in life. Men can feel a deep sense of relief when they realise that it’s okay to connect with other parts of them that they had perhaps cut off in order to adhere to the stereotype of who they thought they should be. Whether it’s developing new hobbies, improving their parenting skills, or fostering deeper friendships, coaching encourages men to pursue what truly makes them happy and fulfilled.

 

 

Low self-esteem can be a significant barrier to success and happiness. Through coaching and inner work, we dissolve their limiting beliefs and patterns of behaviour. Allowing them to step into the happiest, healthiest and most empowered versions of themselves.

 

 

My favourite part of coaching is working with my clients to find their true essence.  Not who they think they are, or who they have been conditioned to be, but who they are at their core.  Their inherent worth.  What lights them up, gives them meaning and purpose and adds incredible value to the world.

 

 

Life coaching is not just about self reflection. My clients and I also agree goals and action plans for them to be working on between sessions.  I provide my clients with a wide range of practical tools and strategies to help them navigate life’s challenges.  From stress management techniques and communication skills, to methods for staying motivated and focused on their goals.

 

 

I have witnessed incredible transformations in the men I’ve coached. Many of whom are men who, from the outside, have it all together, and are successful in many areas.  But these men can see the importance of having someone impartial, compassionate and not afraid to challenge them on their side.  One client, a high-powered executive, learned to balance his emotions and well being, despite an incredibly demanding job with intense periods of travel. Resulting in a more harmonious home life and an increased sense of calm in the work place – with greater clarity around the next steps required to level-up his company. Another client, struggling with anxiety, discovered his inner resistance to calm and need to “be busy”, allowing him to do the inner work necessary to live a more peaceful life, be more productive at work and be more available emotionally and physically with his family.  These success stories are a testament to the power of life coaching in helping men achieve their full potential.

 

 

I have had the pleasure and privilege of working with many men over the years.  I can’t speak for other female coaches, but for me it feels like a sweet spot.  I get to provide nurture and support to those who are in great need of it, but so rarely have it offered to them.  All of us are vulnerable creatures and the vast majority carry fear of lack/inadequacy from childhood.  Women are generally better at surrounding themselves with nurturing people.  So the men I work with deeply appreciate having that space held, being seen for their greatness but being able to be open about their vulnerability and find ways through, without having to worrying about how they will be seen by their peers.

 

If you’re ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth, life coaching could be the catalyst for the positive change you seek. Remember, asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness, and every step you take towards self-improvement is a victory.  Or perhaps their is a man in your life that you can see would benefit from this support.

 

I offer a free discovery call – which is a chance to get to know one another and test the water, with no obligation.  Just get in touch to book, or use the below link.  Coaching sessions start at £80 ph with options to bulk book for a small discount.